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Create Parent Account
Register and verify as a parent or legal guardian. Children never create accounts.
New friends for them. Peace of mind for you.
Be Among the First Parents on FriendlySpeaking.com
Your Family Friend Finder: secure, 100% parent-controlled friendship and playdate coordination for ages 2 to 20.
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Your new friends are waiting!
Ages 2 to 20
Quick Overview
See how FriendlySpeaking works in about a minute.
Get a quick look at parent-controlled discovery, compatible connections, and safer playdate planning.
How it works
Simple, Safe Playdate Coordination in 6 Steps
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Set Location Radius
Choose a search radius up to 100 miles. Only approximate distance is shown, never your exact address.
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Add Child Profiles
Add profiles under your account with a nickname, age from 2 to 20, interests, and availability.
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Find Compatible Families
Filter by age, interests, preferred times, language, activities, and other family preferences.
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Express Mutual Interest
Private parent-to-parent chat opens only after both parents express interest.
06
Arrange Playdates
Decide where to meet and plan activities together, entirely on the parents' terms.
Trust and safety at the core
Built Around Parent Control & Child Safety
100% Parent Controlled
Children never log in, search, or send messages independently.
Privacy First
Surnames, birth dates, schools, exact locations, and street addresses are never publicly visible.
Mutual Consent Messaging
Direct messages open only after both parents express interest.
Better-fit friendships
Connect Over Shared Passions
Look beyond whoever happens to be nearby and discover compatibility around the things that matter to your child.
Sports
Soccer, basketball, swimming, gymnastics, martial arts
Outdoor
Hiking, camping, parks, beaches
Creative
Art, drawing, music, photography, dance
Academic
Coding, robotics, languages, science, reading
Games
Board games, chess, LEGO, strategy
Social
Playdates, group activities, homeschool groups
A parent-first hello
Every connection begins between adults.
Parents decide who to contact, what to share, and whether to arrange a meeting. Children never receive direct messages.
Sample parent message
Shared only after mutual interest
“Hi! I'm Sarah, mom to 9-year-old Jack, who loves soccer and LEGO. We noticed your family is nearby and enjoys similar activities. We'd love to connect for a playdate!”
Illustrative example, not a customer testimonial
Questions, answered
Frequently Asked Questions
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